Sunny days with dark clouds

We enter summer with all kinds of plans. The best is laying in bed in the morning and not having to rush off to anywhere. This has been the best part of summer so far. I will not question why my youngest is the best at snuggling for hours on end. Given a bottle and a bag of chips she can lay in bed (on dads side) all morning. This will teach dad not to buy potato chips.
Our four year old is at camp two days a week. He can choose one of so many things to do while there. They teach the kids knitting, sewing, beading. He can spend all his time in the clay room making what ever his hands want. What does my son do? He digs in the sand box and rolls down the grass hill. And with the best smile on his face and giggles that just make you want it to last forever.
Is there something about sand and grass that little boys cannot get enough of?
We are seeking a solution to screaming. Yes she at 20 months old screams if she does not get what she wants. You cringe with each shriek. It is ear piercing and it gets anyone and everyone staring at you wondering why you cannot control your child. I resort to bribing my 4 yr old to be on his best behavior, using inside voices no running you know the normal. I think we need to remain indoors for awhile till she stops screaming.
What else has she learned.. She rolls the windows down on the car with her tow. This is my second child that has figured out how to bend their toe to roll up or down the window. So triple digits and the window is down.
So the dark lining. It has been a tough few months but got worse the last few weeks. I finally pushed my insurance for another opinion. I have a lot left to see and do and I figured it was time for answers. What I got typical hmo style sorry we cant fix your ankles here try this brace oh and by the way your insurance wont pay for it. So I did to only learn it make my ankles worse. Walking is getting harder each day and still no fix. Only that what they say is causing it will also affect my heart.